Originally Posted by Cyber Cheating Stinks
I drove all the salacious texts and emails to the OWH's house. He was blase' about the whole thing. I said, "Your wife is driving some 25 miles from your home to hang out on our beach in hopes of bumping into my husband." He replied, "You look upset. I will read what you printed for me."
There is no telling what each couple has agreed to in their marriage. At least I felt better that he knew what was going on. I can't make him care, and I can't make her change. She already has several other boytoys lined up.
At least you made the effort. For all you know, he might have been cheating too, hence his lack of a reaction. But you did the right thing.