| | Re: This is How I feel Honestly..
you cant say that those voting cards arent used to manipulate or course the other person towards what you want or vice versa. People always say how unselfish they are ..but when you dig deep enought you will see how much benefit they are receiving in the long run and why they will attemp and profess there not selfish , most people are giving in a relationship only to recieve , how can you say thats not selfish , i think people are so in deneail about the evil that lurks in men and womens heart that they convince themselves that its inexistent, then they believie it , and arent really able to see these things until .hey what do you know 20 years later someone is finally had all they can take Holding in and pretending things dont exist , when really the truth is you will never know peoples real heart , so face it there is the possibility your spouse is unhappy and good at hiding it , or that they secretly hide things from you for trust reasons they may not ever reveal until its too late , Ive also learned that people that hold the upper hand in relationships will be the quickest to defend the control/manipulate card..why? .of course because they are holding it ..lol..wouldnt want spouse to finally wake up and realize how good i am at controlling them secretly making them believe im not ..illusion do exist or there wouldnt be mental homes and crazy people ..you would be suprised how many illusions you may be sold on and not even know it ..people will always side with their point of veiw until it is decreased by a greater ..its like the government telling me im free when Obviously look around I am not ..I am subject to whatever Law they Make for My ass.. Dont sound too free . and no I am just calling a spade a spade..
the stuff abouth growth ..the only growth in this world that isnt done in vain is that towards God , so even if you build your marriage year after year and grow and all those great things . you die and then leave that person .now its harder for them to go on with out you after 20 years ..its a setup.. and even if you are the best in this world you will die and leave your best to this unbest world..lol..VAIN.....VAIN....VAIN.. maybe im bein cynical..but dont tell me thats what marriage is because the definetion of marriage differs for everyone..and there are people that will walk away from you after years of building and trust with them ,and there heart was deceitfull ..and they leave you with **** ..all cause you trusted them..ask my mom ..No good pops gone after 24 years ..cleaned out the account ..took the cars and scratched the lease ..gave her the boot and relocated to sc with Boeing ,and newfound Position ..so long old Loser life and wife and family ..HELLO Money.. Marriage huh ..poor woman Loved and trusted this douche ...im done..