| | Re: I think the sexual spark has died
time to self reflect and come up with some boundries.and then a very calm candid talk about whats up with your sex life.
tell her you would like to include the toy in your love making and that you would also like to include something you like into the mix. tell her sex should be playfull and fun and that she should tell you what she likes and you would love to hear it.
then start snooping something else could be up. dose she have free time where she would have opprounity is she overly friendly with any male friends.
meanwhile keeping an open mind that its nothing.and shes just bored.