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If your husband won't change the way he puts his family first, then divorce him.
To me that's 100% unacceptable that he is allowing any outside influence in your marriage, whether it's family or not.
YOU are his family, you are his immediate family, they are secondary & unless he sees that, I honestly don't think the two of you will be able to stay married for the long term.
The bitterness will eat away at your soul, the feeling of always being cast aside over other people is more than enough to divorce.
After all, it does take two to make a marriage work.