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LOSTfan · 06-30-2012, 03:42 AM

I feel like anything I do will be a mistake. If I cry in front of her, I'm not a man. If I don't cry, I'm not sensitive. If I try and help the ws, I'm not allowing her the chance to prove she's trying.if I don't help, then I feel nothing will change. If I trust her, she'll do it again.if I do to much to verify,ill push her away. I've read no more mr nice guy. I was learning alot, but dday changed everything. I'm taking everything so personally now.
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LOSTfan Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 130	As a newly betrayed spouse, what shouldnt i do I feel like anything I do will be a mistake. If I cry in front of her, I'm not a man. If I don't cry, I'm not sensitive. If I try and help the ws, I'm not allowing her the chance to prove she's trying.if I don't help, then I feel nothing will change. If I trust her, she'll do it again.if I do to much to verify,ill push her away. I've read no more mr nice guy. I was learning alot, but dday changed everything. I'm taking everything so personally now. Posted via Mobile Device