Originally Posted by lostwithin
The naysayers can say we're faking it or we're full of it or it's infatuation.... whatever!! they will never understand until they FEEL it themselves. I wish everyone could experience what is we felt just once in their lives.
You guys crack me up. You are like a bunch of 15 year olds with a first crush.
I "felt it" and married her a couple of decades ago. I still "FEEL" it.
What you are "feeling" is a dopamine reaction because someone noticed you and reciprocated. Twinkies served on paper plates would look like a multi-course dinner at a 3 star restaurant to someone who is starving.
I think we have 3 love sick puppies in this thread - look up dopamine gentlemen, your judgement is currently about as good as that of a crack addict.
So, pine away while you listen to the rationalization hamster spew the Love Song of AJP or go stand in front of the mirror and observe the man that you led you and your relationship into its current state of distress.
The pattern will repeat, with your wife or a new love, until you fix you.
What do you intend to do about it?