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snap · 06-30-2012, 07:13 AM

That, and she still is in the affair.

I don't think it's good time to open yourself up emotionally to her again. That's just setting yourself up for more pain.

If you feel a need to cry, do it in a bathroom. Do not show her how hurt you are, it just gives her more control over you.

06-30-2012, 07:13 AM	#4 (permalink)
snap Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 1,093	Re: As a newly betrayed spouse, what shouldnt i do That, and she still is in the affair. I don't think it's good time to open yourself up emotionally to her again. That's just setting yourself up for more pain. If you feel a need to cry, do it in a bathroom. Do not show her how hurt you are, it just gives her more control over you.