Originally Posted by FormerNiceGuy
AFEH, I see you forgot to take your medicine again.
There are people at all stages of their development FNG. All stages of their development. What seems crazy and unreal to you, is very sane and real to them.
How was your mocking supposed to help them? Tell us that. What was your “design” in the response you gave, your motivations, why you did what you did? I must have missed something. Did I? Educate me. If you don’t tell, then your intentions were not good, not good at all.
Take your good self in your development. You’ve given yourself the name of FormerNiceGuy.
If you truly knew, if you were at a different stage of development in your own life you would call yourself RecoveringNiceGuy. Because that helps you not to slip back into old habits, old compulsive behaviour.
Much like an alcoholic who truly gets it, understands these things never calls himself FormerAlcoholic. Because he knows for a fact that he is a recovering alcoholic and just one more sip from the font and he’s way back to where he started from. And that's why he names himself as such. RecoveringAlcoholic. Just by the name you have called yourself, I know you don’t know these things.