Re: I was not looking...
aliot of judgement in this thread. i like the stages AFEH describes, i can see my self heading the direction of the OP. if a woman i was attracted to showed me some attention right now, i would be extremely vulnerable to her. i will shoulder any blame the judgmental would like to heap upon me, bring it. my wife has checked out and i simply cannot afford to leave the marriage, cant do it and wont do it until my kids are out. dont preach about the kids will be better off BS, they wouldnt be. i have tried talking, manning up, cuddling, rubbing, blah blah blah. didnt work. she basically has tried nothing.
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