dees4

Thank you. The red flags that I saw...well like I said before everytime we broke up he always lured me back in with his promises and charm and it never lasted. He lived 60 miles from me and I was always the one putting out the effort to go see him. He occasionally would come my way but I did the majority of the traveling. He remembered my birthday the first year we were dating and every other holiday after that he had a great excuse why he "forgot" to even get me a card. His family and kids were always before me..always! He was always late for everything too which drives me crazy. So I could go on and on but I won't. I just know that I saw things that should have alerted me to the fact that we were not right for each other no matter how much I loved him. I believe he loves me in his own distorted way. It hurts like hell to know we are really done but I know in the long run it is best. Not only me for but for my kids too.