| | Re: need the ladies advise
Communication is key for your situation; it sounds like you are in limbo and don't know what is really going on with your wife, can you talk with her now and see if the changes you have made are helping? You said you are going away next weekend, can you make that a special weekend, pamper her and do the things you use to do before you had kids? Think back to the good times and what it was you did before kids, can you spend some quality time together doing those things? Sometimes you just need to show more attention, more affection, more kindness and the fire rekindles.