Originally Posted by lamaga
She has a nanny four hours a day and she is still complaining?
Also, it's hardly your fault that it takes jumping through a lot of hoops to get an EAD. And she did get to complete her MBA.
I don't know what to tell you, but I'm not about to jump on you for somehow not doing enough when it sounds like she is looking for excuses to be mad at you.
I will echo the above -- you have to spend more time together, and you have to figure out a way to communicate better. She's holding in things, and holding grudges, and that will be death to your marriage.
Thanks for the responses so far. You're spot on regarding finding better ways to communicate. I try that and will keep at it despite being stonewalled. I guess I/ we should also give ourselves a time frame and if we cannot improve (our relationship), even it its a small step in the right direction, we need to consider alternatives. No one (including her as well) deserves to be in a dead relationship.