Originally Posted by chewing_on_pearls
He's a masochist. Try to explore it a little bit with him
I agree with you CoPearls.
I would angle it towards him providing some sort of service to you, JWah, like you are his Goddess and he your servant... role play so you have some satisfaction yourself. Perhaps too the 'threat' of potential of you hurting him is enough to avoid hurting him, you could play with that (uncomfortable as it might be, you can then try to reduce it towards your comfort zone)