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o.k. if you are taking this as marriage Being , in the sense , past, ot present , then of course you will see it that way , Let me ask you ? Have you ever build with someone for years , honestly,dedicating, Loving , showering this person with the best of you and all that you have to offer, Only for that person to see it as **** after 10-20 years , and pull the okie -doke on you and your left with ****..all of your confidence that you carried for many years pertaining marriage immiediatly shoots to an all time low ..no more preaching how good marriage is , and how you should trust your spouse ,You have now become a victim of your worst nightmare ..time to scour the net for a forum for some sort for relief , or better yet scour the net for a new life cause my old one just blew up in my face..No this isn't bitter i think i am being taken all wrong here .. I love my wife and she's great but to say i trust her ..well thats another issue .. Wake up and smell the roses people ..whoever told you to trust man anyways..even God told you to never put your trust in man or bow and arrows , or princes or knights.. so would'nt you be the fool if you trusted man and he screwed you ..is it really their fault or yours for not obeying the wisdom of the Lord ?? and about us not being the ones to decide that growth in general is not worthwhile, then who are we to decide what right and wrong is ,or Judge men in our own righteousness ,as we do , such as the Judicial system , Who gave us the power to decide if a man should die or not , Who gave us any power at all ? Well as far as sex with children, who are we to Judge if they are right or not ..Since when have we become ordained judges with robes and gavels.. All these theory's ,beliefs,and thesis's all hinge on the eduacation we have been taught by someone else and we sit and defend it as our very own ..just because you been taught something doesnt mean it's right ..you said it yourself regarding sex with children,,but who are we to make absolutes on life leaving no room, and imediatly dismissing any other possibilities.. everything you know, you
've been taught..How do you know what youve been taught is accurate ? you dont ..As far as me getting married , Just like everything in my life if I am interested in something enough, I seek it out on my own ..taking no other mans word for it ..That was marriage for me a learning experience , Just like prison was for me also ..and very worth it . and so is marriage , but doesnt mean after youve recieved what it is you came for that you have to continue in it ..If you finished all of your courses in college wouldnt you graduate ? why continue to sit in class when you feel as if youve received what you came for ??.. King soloman dug into all sorts of thing for himself for the sake of Knowledge and wisdom , and what was his conclusion ??Vanity says the preacher..All is vanity under the sun and vexation of spirit , But it is good with him who loves the Lord..im not challenging marriage ,im challenging the accuracy of how its taught and the reason why its hard for the mental to catch up with the physical ..its not our situations that are the problem its what our mental has created them into ,by way of lack of knowledge in how to properly act -or re-act in situations ..my point is in all your pursuit for the perfect marriage , or changing all these things about yourself to make it work and so-on . Doesnt really mean that it's make an impact or difference for that matter. all your efforts may reward you in the end with legal fees and a long shaft up your ass if your not carefull. im just saying dont let the cupid arrow sweep you off on a cloud without considering that there is a drop a billion feet down..