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Originally Posted by anonymouskitty  ........ just don't paint the picture that Dad is an arsehole.
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Well? My grown son concluded that his Dad was, in fact an arsehole and was very angry with him at first. It's been 4 months since we separated and our son has had a few discussions with his father. Although he still thinks his Dad is an arsehole, his anger has subsided and I can see where, since his Dad admitted his acts (said I was 99% correct) and knows he will have to pay for his mistakes, our son sort of feels sorry for his father.
I'm fine with that. I had hoped that our son would maintain a relationship with his father, and did not discourage this. I think my son was worried that I would feel betrayed, and I assured him that everything is fine. He needs his father. He already has me.
