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Shooboomafoo · 07-02-2012, 07:33 AM

Im ten months past my divorce, and havent been out there looking at all. Im developing my own routine after around sixteen years with the same woman married for ten.
Grocery shopping, cleaning, have my kid for a week at a time every other week, mowing the lawn, you know, just taking care of myself the best way I know how for now.
Im not in a hurry. Sometimes I feel a distinct sense of something missing, and other times I feel sort of jumbled still, like I am waiting for the dust to settle or something...
I figure its all okay though. Taking my time, finding me.
I had a girl say hello while I was shopping the other day, and man am I totally unprepared for presenting myself in an available or interested manner.... Sad, sad, sad.. She knew me from my kids daycare, it would have been nice to tell her what my first name was. Duh!
Oh well.

07-02-2012, 07:33 AM	#3 (permalink)
Shooboomafoo Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: In Texas Posts: 1,075	Re: Thoughts on marriage second time around... Im ten months past my divorce, and havent been out there looking at all. Im developing my own routine after around sixteen years with the same woman married for ten. Grocery shopping, cleaning, have my kid for a week at a time every other week, mowing the lawn, you know, just taking care of myself the best way I know how for now. Im not in a hurry. Sometimes I feel a distinct sense of something missing, and other times I feel sort of jumbled still, like I am waiting for the dust to settle or something... I figure its all okay though. Taking my time, finding me. I had a girl say hello while I was shopping the other day, and man am I totally unprepared for presenting myself in an available or interested manner.... Sad, sad, sad.. She knew me from my kids daycare, it would have been nice to tell her what my first name was. Duh! Oh well. __________________ His delay, is not a denial.