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AtWitts, you're right where you ought to be right now -- healing and rebuilding your own life.

Yes, it is better -- you choose better, ideally. Once married, you learn what works and what doesn't work. Really, think about it. None of us does anything perfect the first time -- not riding a bike, not playing the piano, not even buying a car -- why do we think it will be so different when it comes to something huge like marriage?

Diwali is right -- you are young, it's time to enjoy your life and work on your own career and personal growth. If and when the time comes and the right guy comes along, you'll be ready. Good luck!