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SageMother · 09-08-2007, 11:12 AM

My heart goes out to you.

People have remarried each other, after having divorced each other and learning a few lessons. It feels like your husband needs to learn a few lessons and that your still being attached to him is giving him someone to blame,instead of his thinking about his responsibility in the situation.

As difficult as this is, I feel you would be protecting yourself by filing for divorce as soon as possible. If he manages to grow up a bit, he might come back to you, but in the mean time you have the opportunity to build a worthwhile life for yourself and attract worthwhile people into it.

09-08-2007, 11:12 AM	#2 (permalink)
SageMother Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 166	Re: When to give up...pls help!!! My heart goes out to you. People have remarried each other, after having divorced each other and learning a few lessons. It feels like your husband needs to learn a few lessons and that your still being attached to him is giving him someone to blame,instead of his thinking about his responsibility in the situation. As difficult as this is, I feel you would be protecting yourself by filing for divorce as soon as possible. If he manages to grow up a bit, he might come back to you, but in the mean time you have the opportunity to build a worthwhile life for yourself and attract worthwhile people into it.