bribrius

well, i also almost had sex with one of the babysitters once. But not only did the babysitter change her mind saying she couldnt do it she eventually told my wife about it. we lost a babysitter on that one as my wife didnt want her back in the house again.

But the babysitter was over eighteen which a good thing, and me and my wife werent married then and in a dating phase not committed relationship so i dont see how she could hold that one against me. It was also YEARS ago.

well, and one of my wifes best friends. Came real close to having sex with her. So close the clothes were off. who also changed her mind last minute saying she couldnt do that to a friend even though she really wanted to. she told my wife as well. But again, we weren't married then, not serious, YEARS AGO. That shouldnt count either in my book.

edit: i did sleep with a tenant though, but again we werent married then, quite a while back, and we were in a "in between phase" relationship me and my wife.
Trying to work things out but her trying to make us work much more than me. i considered us dating and didnt really care much at the time. But years ago, and we werent married yet then either....and i kind of went from girl, to girl, to girl back then...

just trying to think of reason my wife might be insecure and suffer fear of abandonment issues.....