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Old 07-03-2012, 06:44 AM   #12 (permalink)
AtWittsEnd
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Default Re: Thoughts on marriage second time around...

It's good to see all of your different views, thank you for sharing your opinions, you all have interesting angles on this.

Lamaga I'm defiantly working on myself at the moment, have enrolled in a course studying to be a nurse and looking forward to moving around the country with my new career soon. *

Although I was with the stbxh for soo long, in recent years he worked away and I guess I got used to having to do things on my own and was allowed a lot of freedom, so although I won't be rushing into anything I feel I know myself well and don't crave the 'me' time many others need soo much after a long relationship.

Unhappy... I overlooked many things in my partner that I know NOW we're warning signs that something like this might happen. *He didn't want kids to start with but later changed his mind but would constantly make negative remarks when our friends started having children , became more & more emotionally withdrawn, didn't get along with his own family.
These and other things would be warning signs to look out for.

I know I'm not perfect.. pretty close though! Lol :-)

It's such a strange irony that only a year ago my friends were single and I was the married one, now I'm single and all my girlfriends have partners and are 'knocked up'! Lol

What doesn't kill us makes us stronger!
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