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827Aug · 05-24-2008, 04:47 AM

Hi Cooper!

I'm in your spot. My husband and I have been together 24 years and I know he is having an affair. He denies it. Before he moved out he told me so many lies he couldn't even keep them all straight. He would take expensive vacations alone or with the guys. He would have "boat night" at least one night weekly and find an excuse to be gone two weekends out of the month. In addition, he had another wardrobe; most of the clothes were party(bar) clothing. He also started wearing an expensive watch and sunglasses. He stole money from our business and opened separate checking and brokerage accounts. A private e-mail account was set-up. Someone was text message him many times during the day and he would answer them while trying to hide what he was doing. Our business deteriorated and he really didn't care. An e-mail was presented to him where he told his brother about spending his b-day with XXX at a resort. And finally to top it off, I found an empty condom box under my truck seat (after he borrowed my truck). There have been other things, but that's just the most obvious examples. He was presented with ALL of those things and more. I'm sure the affair has gone on 18 months, but he still DENIES it!

05-24-2008, 04:47 AM	#10 (permalink)
827Aug Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 240	Re: questions about infidelity Hi Cooper! I'm in your spot. My husband and I have been together 24 years and I know he is having an affair. He denies it. Before he moved out he told me so many lies he couldn't even keep them all straight. He would take expensive vacations alone or with the guys. He would have "boat night" at least one night weekly and find an excuse to be gone two weekends out of the month. In addition, he had another wardrobe; most of the clothes were party(bar) clothing. He also started wearing an expensive watch and sunglasses. He stole money from our business and opened separate checking and brokerage accounts. A private e-mail account was set-up. Someone was text message him many times during the day and he would answer them while trying to hide what he was doing. Our business deteriorated and he really didn't care. An e-mail was presented to him where he told his brother about spending his b-day with XXX at a resort. And finally to top it off, I found an empty condom box under my truck seat (after he borrowed my truck). There have been other things, but that's just the most obvious examples. He was presented with ALL of those things and more. I'm sure the affair has gone on 18 months, but he still DENIES it!