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TDSC60 · 07-03-2012, 03:49 PM

Wife of 22 years has a 2.5 year intense sexual affair.

Asked you to split 18 months ago (1 year into the affair).

Lied to you for the last 2-3 years. Continues to lie about the details of the affair even now.

I think your time alone showed you that you will be OK without her and you are afraid to admit it. I see no hope for a marriage after a long term affair. Your marriage is over and dead. Do you want to try to build a new life with this woman who betrayed, disrespected and lied to you for so long?

Face your fears and move on without her. She just wants you for security at this point. A place to stay until the next bad boy lover comes along. Plus how can you ever trust her or her family again?

07-03-2012, 03:49 PM	#6 (permalink)
TDSC60 Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: SE USA Posts: 1,406	Re: 6 weeks after finding out really struggling(long) Wife of 22 years has a 2.5 year intense sexual affair. Asked you to split 18 months ago (1 year into the affair). Lied to you for the last 2-3 years. Continues to lie about the details of the affair even now. I think your time alone showed you that you will be OK without her and you are afraid to admit it. I see no hope for a marriage after a long term affair. Your marriage is over and dead. Do you want to try to build a new life with this woman who betrayed, disrespected and lied to you for so long? Face your fears and move on without her. She just wants you for security at this point. A place to stay until the next bad boy lover comes along. Plus how can you ever trust her or her family again? Last edited by TDSC60; 07-03-2012 at 03:53 PM.