| | Re: Advice/input please - honest reason for condom in the laundry?
Do not duck this issue----you have been with him, for years now, so you should be able to tell when he is lying
You need to confront him, and you need to look him straight in the eyes, and keep focusing on him, till you get your answer
Do not let him say, he doesn't know----If you didn't bring it in the house, then there is only one other person in your home, that could have---your H.
Do not let him wiggle off the hook, if he refuses to answer, then you need an actionable consequence
Your mge, does have a problem, if the two of you are sperated from each other for half of every week, of the year------that is way tooooo much alone time---and those who are by themselves, away from the partners, can very easily get into trouble
Your mge. is facing some decisions---1st you need to find out about the condom, 2nd, you need to sit down and discuss how to get your mge, back on course, even if it means, one of you changes jobs/changes hours.