| | Re: No Contact is So Difficult
It sounds like he wants to keep having some kind of hold on you.
I would not reply except to send a handwritten note with signature required on delivery that says you do not want him to contact you in any way, and that if he continues you will get an order to prevent harassment.
My ex has waved at my children (they're not his) after we asked him not to. It disturbs my daughter, she has also seen him driving by our place which is unnecessary (we live on a side street.) On my divorce decree it provides freedom from harassment, so I am planning to take my daughter to the police station so that ex can be called and told not to drive by our place and not to wave at my children.