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Hi Cooper - that flu bug is going around - not fun at all. Hopefully you stay healthy because I am sure your defenses are down with all the stress in your life.
Not what else to say about how your wife is acting towards you. Sounds like she is resentful of you telling her what to do ( but sounds like she has earned that treatment from some of your stories) As you are resentful of her not pitching in around the house & putting time in with the family. I am guessing it always wasn't that way but as you both grew apart - these issues intensified.
Wish I could recommend that you work things out but again, from what you have written in past, it doesn't sound like your wife has shown any interest in doing that. Nor do you have strong feeling about working it out any more.
Do what makes you happy - don't worry about her anymore. Think about you & your kids - you've spent too much time & energy worrying & caring for others. do something for you - it feels great.
Have a super day - will check in with you again soon