I dunno, Its hard to explain. I think she is right - we get on like best friends.
She tells me that its not all the time she's not interested. I mean its medically proven that women's libido increases with alcohol (i'm sure...) so that explains her frickyness when she's drunk. When we do have sex its usually over quickly - my fault - because it doesnt happen often. she enjoys it though. I think her opinion of herself is a big part of it. On a few occasions when I try to go down on her, she'll stop me. She likes it but she stops me sometimes.
We both know that there isnt much romance anymore as we work and then just watch tv and go to bed during the week. Ive tried a "date night" a few times but the last time when we went to bed it all ended horribly as she "felt too much pressure".
hmm. I'd like to get a woman's perspective on it if there are any about