| | Re: No sexual spark for a partner, then what?
I second what livelaughlovenow and Homemaker_Numero_Uno are saying. It's more than worth exploring your sexual relationship together. When my W and I met, we were both very sexually inexperienced, and had a lot of sexual hangups to boot. After the initial novelty and passion wore off, our sex life stalled because quite frankly, we didn't know how to have good sex. It's taken a lot of effort on both of our parts, but the good news is it's a positive feedback loop. Better sex leads to more passion and desire for each other, which leads to even better sex, and so on.
Of course you may try this stuff and it may not work, but at least you'll know you put in the effort.