Cee Paul

And to those that have been cheated on who are taking shots at me - that's crazy, because I am the one ON YOUR SIDE about how wrong it is for your spouse or significant other to have cheated on you. My sister's husband has cheated on her 3 times over the past 20 years that she knows of and she's continuously taken him back, and I was in her corner the first time and was supportive when she took him back then because other than infidelity he's a really nice guy & always has been. But after the 2nd and 3rd times I backed out and told her she's on her own and that if he cheats a 4th - 5th - and 6th time, she has allowed it all to keep happening so she shouldn't be surprised & won't get any sympathy from me.

And some of you sound like you're mad at me because I'm NOT a cheater and maybe should be; but for the record I turned down one opportunity to cheat in this marriage with a co-worker(that's still there), and turned down an opportunity with one of our neighbors in my previous marriage as well.