| | Re: Fiance is not attracted to me anymore
No, Craig isn't getting the picture.
Women stop being attracted to their husbands (you're shacked up so it's the same thing) at the 4-7 year mark, unless the husband has a strong game or is much higher ranked SMV who gets lots of looks from other women. Even then, women will still have ebbs and flows of attraction and even embark on affairs with lower SMV males. And God help the man whose SMV drops, like Greek god body to George Costanza. In the absence of proof of affair, this is manifested as "loss of libido." Researchers can predict length of relationship based on declining levels of female libido. Their libido goes dormant until the H ups his game, SMV, or another man enters the picture.
"You deserve someone better" means "i'm disloyal and I'm getting or about to be getting it on with somebody other than you who is reawakening by libido when you aren't around."
Get out now.