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Old 07-04-2012, 12:43 PM   #59 (permalink)
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Default Re: One of the MAIN reasons I don't cheat....

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In MC our C made the standard comment, "given the circumstance everyone is vunerable"... my fww nodding. she looks at me, I looking at both of them in disgust. "You just dont get it do you... 30 years of MC, and dont get it". If marriage is bad enough to cheat, then divorce. Wow, what a novel idea.
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But what if the marriage isn't bad enough to cheat? But it still happened?

OK, I will admit, maybe my circumstances are, if not unique, fairly rare, my wife cheated on me, but due to her circumstances, she failed to understand that her actions would hurt me. Yes, she was sorry when she saw the effect it had on me.

I became depressed and cheated as a result of that depression.

But was our relationship bad? No, in general, it wasn't. And we are still together.
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