Originally Posted by yottazenzen
Her main thing was all about sex...she wanted it every day, several times a day if possible. I asked her if she would have left me if I had prostate cancer or what about when we're older and things don't even work? She said that that would be different because it wouldn't be my fault but I wonder...
I doubt think if you became ill and could never again perform sexually that she would have remained faithful. She would have used that as a reason to cheat.
I always knew i would not cheat if my spouse had prostate cancer and could no longer function. My marriage vows said in sickness and in health.
I also have numerous lady friends married to men in their 50s and some in their 40s who have erectile dysfunction. Viagra does not work for everyone and can be harmful to men with certain heart conditions
These lady friends remain faithful. On the other hand, my STBEH had too many males friends who were cheaters.
I guess the saying "show me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are" is true.
I would drop a friend or at least avoid them, if i knew they were cheating or single and banging a married guy.