Originally Posted by Henri
Thanks for the posts.
What would you (or anyone) suggest in the situation that the sexual attraction was never very high in the first place, so it isn't about recovering something lost, but rather the relationship is based on love not sexual passion, but the sexual passion starts to become an issue in the relationship?
I, personally, would be curious as to why you two married married without strong sexual attraction on both your parts. Was there pressure to marry? Did she conceal the fact she was not sexually attracted to you so that you would marry her? Conversely, did you know she was not sexually into you but figured you could make it work?