Originally Posted by livelaughlovenow
Passion can be found.... you need to learn sexually about your partner and they need to learn about you and find what you like, dislike and vise versa, and flirt, be sexual, touch sexually, attraction can be developed.
I must disagree on this. There has to be some "spark". If, for instance, his wife just does not like sex (or sex with him) that much, no way in hell will you convince her to invest the time to:
1) Discuss his likes and dislikes, and what his vision is for their sexual relationship.
2) Figure out how to translate the above into action on her part.
3) Persist at making his sexual needs a priority if she does not share them.