Cooper

I think our marriage was good until we had kids. I always wanted kids but she had never given it much thought. When my daughter was born I saw how hard it was for my wife to be a mother, she just didn't have the care giver instinct. We decided not to have any other children. Then on my birthday in 1992 she surprised me by announcing she was pregnant, in front of her whole family. I was so upset I could hardly speak. This was something she planned, not an accident . Don't get me wrong my son is a blessing in my life and we are lucky to have him, but we had decided no more children. I felt tricked and deceived and she has continued this kind of stuff for the last 15 years. Every lie or half truth takes another little piece out of our marriage, and there just aren't many pieces left. Cooper