| | Re: My Wife and her ex-boyfriend
EXs need to be no contact period. Her EX is driving a wedge into your relationship. It may be too late but that does not matter. The longer this goes on the worse it is going to get.
So you need to tell her you want to work on the marriage and that she must go NC with her EX. It would have been better of course if you giys had already doen His Needs Her Needs and set some boundaries. Because it is these lack of baoundaries that is killing your marriage.
If by taking a firm stand she chooses the EX then so be it. You are losing her now anyway. Your only chance of keeping her is to get her out of her affair with her EX she is in.
Letting this get started at all was a big problem.
"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing."
"Why do we fall? So we might learn to pick ourselves up."
"Itís not who we are underneath, but what we do that defines us."