Originally Posted by TDSC60
Your wife was the aggressor here. She wanted sex with P and went after it body and soul. She got shut down but it was not because of her lack of trying, it was him. I'm guessing he is a closet homosexual.
But the fact that she went after him with everything she had to make it happen is what you should be focusing on.
Her ego took a major hit when he turned her down. Is she remorseful and sorry that she tried to fvck another man or is she just trying to rebuild her ego with someone that she knows loves her (you)? Is she going to find another guy she is attracted to and offer herself to him so she can validate this need of hers to confirm that men find her attractive?
It's your choice to allow her to stay with you, but I can see you back here in a couple of year heart broken that your young wife found a guy who could get it up for her.
Or maybe he did not want the risk of starting a relationship with someone who could, just as easily, cheat on him?