Originally Posted by MattMatt
Or maybe he did not want the risk of starting a relationship with someone who could, just as easily, cheat on him?
Or maybe just maybe, however unlikely, he is a moral man who could not jump in the sack with another man's wife.
But the OP needs to focus on his wife's intentions and her aggressive, sexual actions with OM, not the fact that it didn't happen.
You can empty a gun at someone and just because you missed the intended target doesn't mean you are blameless.