Originally Posted by missmolly

errr my first post

I was like that from about late 30's onwards but we could always just enjoy it and appreciate how it kept us so connected.
But menopause - now that was something different again - I wanted it even more and non stop and really struggled to maintain my dignity. Keeping my hands off him became a major problem as it coincided with the onset of other problems for him.
Thank goodness we have survived that period and have now just settled into a more workable frequency. I still feel deprived if I can't have SOME sort of sexual encounter at least once per day but am getting better at backing off and not making him feel under any sort of pressure.