KAISER

Sometimes us guys can be a little slow on picking up how serious the situation is.Make it absolutely clear to him that you will leave if things aren't going to change.It took my wife awhile to get through to me how serious the situation was.My moment came about two weeks before she left me.She said something that shocked me and was unmistakeable about her intentions to leave.I regret not taking this more seriously and getting us some counseling a long time before I did.She stated she didn't like who I was as a person anymore and I came to the realization that I wasn't sure I liked who I was anymore.I have been carrying around a lot of anger due to issues in my past.I am actually grateful to her for making me deal with these things which I have been running away from for way too long.