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GAsoccerman · 05-28-2008, 02:09 AM

A couple of questions...

Do your parents know about his up bringing? that he came from a bad household and abused as a child?

Unfortunately your husband has to struggle to control his bahavior, this stems from his abusive past, he does not want to create the same issues, and I am sure he hates himself for the push and the slap in the past.

I really think you need to have a sit down with your parents and your husband, no one else around and "lay it all down on the table" where anything and any feelings can be expressed.

let it all out and air it out, all four of you together with no one else around. Have the rules is no one can throw anything, no getting up, just talking, yelling screaming, ec.

Once all the feelings that are aired out, then you can begin the healing. If your parents do not know about his abusive past, they should know, and they should also understand that it is a constant struggle for him not to be the same way or act that way to his wife or children.

maybe all four of you can got to couneling together.

05-28-2008, 02:09 AM	#2 (permalink)
GAsoccerman Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 567	Re: My parents hate my husband A couple of questions... Do your parents know about his up bringing? that he came from a bad household and abused as a child? Unfortunately your husband has to struggle to control his bahavior, this stems from his abusive past, he does not want to create the same issues, and I am sure he hates himself for the push and the slap in the past. I really think you need to have a sit down with your parents and your husband, no one else around and "lay it all down on the table" where anything and any feelings can be expressed. let it all out and air it out, all four of you together with no one else around. Have the rules is no one can throw anything, no getting up, just talking, yelling screaming, ec. Once all the feelings that are aired out, then you can begin the healing. If your parents do not know about his abusive past, they should know, and they should also understand that it is a constant struggle for him not to be the same way or act that way to his wife or children. maybe all four of you can got to couneling together.