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incognito70 · 05-28-2008, 01:16 AM

Read my post called: 'HONEST IMPARTIAL OPINIONS PLEASE?', in the section: "Thinking of separation or divorce".

Why?

Because my situation (although not parallel in all respects to your situation) is the polar opposite. You are ....well...me...in my situation.

BTW, what you are engaging in with this other 'friend' is an actual affair (without the sex part). I know, because I've done that & now look back on it in retrospect.

I've since found other ways/reasons to feed my deprived ego in the home, but it is a more challenging & noble task, than to start 'falling in love' with the next closest person of the opposite sex that cushions the blows to my ego.

This 'infidelity' or thought of infidelity part, is what is the most similar to my experience.

I highly recommend seeking support anonymously from a forum such as this in order to cope, than to act out something you will most likely regret.

Easier said than done, but by having second thoughts, or 'third & fourth' thoughts about it, is a great start.

Good luck & keep your chin up!

05-28-2008, 01:16 AM	#15 (permalink)
incognito70 Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 5	Re: Need really honest advice from the men... Read my post called: 'HONEST IMPARTIAL OPINIONS PLEASE?', in the section: "Thinking of separation or divorce". Why? Because my situation (although not parallel in all respects to your situation) is the polar opposite. You are ....well...me...in my situation. BTW, what you are engaging in with this other 'friend' is an actual affair (without the sex part). I know, because I've done that & now look back on it in retrospect. I've since found other ways/reasons to feed my deprived ego in the home, but it is a more challenging & noble task, than to start 'falling in love' with the next closest person of the opposite sex that cushions the blows to my ego. This 'infidelity' or thought of infidelity part, is what is the most similar to my experience. I highly recommend seeking support anonymously from a forum such as this in order to cope, than to act out something you will most likely regret. Easier said than done, but by having second thoughts, or 'third & fourth' thoughts about it, is a great start. Good luck & keep your chin up!