justean

alot of men easily forget the bad things they do. its how they deal with things . i think men deal with situations far differently to us women. we find talking a way of expressing and dealing with situations, men repress theirs and find it harder to deal with issue.Whats his past history? the sex i agree is the bargaining point but i dont think its a fetish. im not saying you wil get answers, but try and find out if there is anything bothering him and thats why he gets into these issues with you. find out what you both want from eachother sexually. then you might enjoy it more.
but from previous experience dont put up with abuse.