Originally Posted by jasonh
Why did she do this? What did I do to deserve this?? Sure I wasn't perfect but why take it this far?? I seriously can't move on mentally until I have complete closure.
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You will never get an answer to "Why did she do this". No one does. Don't be too hard on yourself - you had very little to do in her behavior. Not every unhappy spouse looks for outside sex for happiness.
Go back to your original thread and reread the advice given by all posters. Now you will read it with different mind-frame.