07-11-2012, 06:36 AM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | Re: Wife has BPD, I am going crazy
Originally Posted by kcguy
Your last part about her behavior, in your state, I am surprised about your response about how she would treat your son. 1. Get her to a Dr, and get a perfessional Diagnosis. 2. Get her on medication. 3. Use this as the basis for sole legal, physical and primay Custody of the child. 4. Do supervised visitation and if she ever hits the kids again have her ass arrrested. You are enabling the sick chick. These woman are manipualitve, controling, you have been brainwashed and fear her. That's their game bro. Untangle yourself from her control of 12 year old behavior, you made a choice, you didn't know what you were getting into. you read the book. They are great actors. No one is getting this woman treatment and I don't know if she would be compliant, as 95% of BDP's aren't and this is the most difficult personality disorder to treat. Run!!!! Run like hell, because you are already in there. Sorry bro. Been there, left there.. Still working on the scars that I got from being there.. Grow a set and get your son, get a good attorney and get the hell out. she's sick. You start the paper trail. Oh. btw. these people are very intelligent too. So, don't tell anyone.. she is probably reading your post. Good luck. PS. I bet if you talked to her ex... Just like she blamed you for everything that goes wrong, is wrong, you are the fault of the problems in her life?... Think about what you said about her previous marriage.. She left because HE was abusive and now your seeing HER being verbally, physically, mentally and probably sexually abusive.. I bet she controls the sex between the two of you. has to control everything..