Justean...I know you mean well in your sharing the situation you r in right now and that it is better to live and not hurt my family over my feelings but when you say you might not even love your H that is exactly my problem. I am afraid that my W might not love me anymore and I feel I cannot go on without her. How easy you make it sound . I cannot understand how a woman can just turn off the love and time , love, family, the meaning of being married etc. so easy. I always hear women say that and men on the other and go down the drain when there is a breakup!. Why do men fall apart and women just move on???. Please make me understand or let me in on a womans secret to life please. Would a woman feel the same if the W had an affair ???. I mean would you say oh well I don't love him anymore so I go out and have more fun without him???.
Come on tell me the secrete I have been missing all my life with women.
Manny