koala49

I feel like I understand your wife. I am still with my husband but I dont think it is going to be for much longer. I too am sick and tired of having my thoughts and ideas shot down in flames as stupid. I have said so many times how this makes me feel but nothing changes. All the promises that it will be different, the promises just go in one ear and out the other now. You know if you picture love as a big rock, you know the kind of love and lust we all feel for our partner right at the beginning, well every time a nasty thing is said or our feelings get hurt or there is an argument its like you take a chisel and you chip some of the rock away, well over time if you just keep chipping away the one day the rock is no longer there, there is nothing to fight for, nothing to hope for and nothing to dream for anymore. What there was is gone and its gone for good, sometimes you just have to accept that its over, there is nothing there anymore and move on. I think you should either, get out of the house and move, or if you are going to stay then make a new life for yourself, if you wife is dating then it is over and its time maybe you started dating to