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dobo · 09-28-2009, 03:52 PM

Sunflower has low self-esteem and needs constant reminders that she's attractive or desirable. Her esteem is so low, she doesn't care how much she hurts her husband because as a matter of fact, the more it would hurt him, the larger the self-esteem boost. She needs him to hurt in order to feel good herself.

This is a person who needs help. But I wouldn't expect her to give up this guy. And if she did, she'd just find another one.

09-28-2009, 03:52 PM	#6 (permalink)
dobo Banned Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,401	Re: Shameless Sunflower has low self-esteem and needs constant reminders that she's attractive or desirable. Her esteem is so low, she doesn't care how much she hurts her husband because as a matter of fact, the more it would hurt him, the larger the self-esteem boost. She needs him to hurt in order to feel good herself. This is a person who needs help. But I wouldn't expect her to give up this guy. And if she did, she'd just find another one.