Originally Posted by Davelli0331
I agree 100% on the importance of personal boundaries. That's probably the #1 thing I've gleaned from this forum, the importance of establishing and respecting one's own principles. I had no idea about any of that when I first came here.
I also do not advocate marriage at any costs, and agree with you there, as well.
I guess what I mean is that the sense of finding that common ground with your spouse, of exploring mutual compromises, seems to be on the wane.
I tend to hang around in CWI the most, so the compromises I read about over there tend to be the WS calling the BS controlling and wanting to hang out at the APs house watching movies and drinking with the occasional innocent overnighter. Posted via Mobile Device