| | Re: Guys who are divorced. How bad did you get hit financially?
Everyone I know that got to this point chose freedom over money. Nobody wins in a divorce which is why if you don't have to don't.
My best friend, a homemaker, is barely getting by but she says she wouldn't change a thing. He was abusive and he cheated on her. She tried for years to fix it to no avail. Eventually the pain of staying was worse than the pain of leaving.
I'm NOT an advocate for divorce but sometimes you gotta know when to fold em.