Just as some that come here, such as myself because of infidelity. I only search the infidelity and divorce forums, because that's what I relate to.
I will admit, that I do not read reconciliation or the success in long term marriage forums, because I don't feel that is a feasible outcome for my marriage.
I respect some advice more than others.... yet when I make a thread, wanting sound advice, I usually get the positive and negatives... that helps me weigh my choices.
I have seen the cheating spouses that have had the guts to post on here, knowing they will get "attacked" still receive support...
As with me, when I am thinking of making a bad choice, the 2x4's help.